Wow! You said Yes!!! Whoohoo! Congratulations!!!
How exciting – now the fun begins!!
No matter how far ahead your big day, from here on in, I bet it will be uppermost in your mind! So much to think about, where to start?!
I guess you’ve already decided on a venue and managed to get the date you wanted! You’re on your way!!
Now’s a perfect time to send out some to your intended guests – and maybe treat yourself to a Wedding Planner notebook so you can jot down everything that springs to mind and that needs organising, and a file to put all the paperwork you’ll accumulate, so you have everything in one place and know exactly where to find it. I expect you’ll want to keep everything stored on your computer or mobile or tablet too, sensible idea! But nothing quite like a handwritten journal as well – makes a lovely keepsake for years to come too!
So, what are the wedding trends for 2019?
No doubt you’ll be on Pinterest pinning ideas right, left and centre, maybe trying to find something a little bit different. Gosh, so much to choose from – colors, styles, decor, and all those wonderful little touches and favors that make every wedding unique! No need to worry about those at this stage though. One step at a time, otherwise you’ll be completely overwhelmed by it all!
First things first … you may already have a favourite color scheme in mind, or are you just open to any ideas and inspiration? Your wedding venue may be the inspiration for the style and colors you decide on. If you’re having an outdoor barn wedding, rustic may be the way to go. Or maybe you’re getting wed in a church followed by a reception in a 5 star hotel, so perhaps an elegant watercolor floral design with a geometric frame.
You’ll find oodles of choice on Zazzle, oh yes!! As a designer in the Zazzle marketplace, I have been researching minimalist, yet elegant wedding stationery suites, through to nature inspired plants in wooden or ceramic containers, pampas grasses and even elements such as crystals and stones for table pieces.. I’ve discovered that less is more in lots of respects, from
Color schemes are a little more flexible for this year; it’s popular to just blend colors together in similar tones, rather than have the colors matching exactly. It’s a great idea to have bridesmaids in various styles of dresses along the same lines, and in different tones of the same color, or similar colors, so they look coordinated but not in a rigid way. Added plus – each of your bridal party can chose a style they feel most comfortable in.
Richer and bolder colors are proving popular, such as shades of orange, berry, yellow and red. Sage green, coupled with earthy tones such as taupe, beige and soft greys; blush pink with greys or navy; copper with rose pink; dusty orange with earthy creams and browns; sunshine yellow with shades of pale green and burgundy; berry pink matched with bluey grey tones; dusty blues; and pretty corals are right on trend.
And then there’s your dress – where to start with that! Sometimes it’s better to have a completely open mind, as if you try and find that “dream dress” you have pictured in your mind you may be disappointed! I had a very specific style and color of dress in mind for when Lee and I renewed our wedding vows a couple of years ago – could I find anything like it? No of course not – unless I had got it custom made and there was no way I was going to do that!! In the end I found a beautiful outfit, completely different to what I had had in mind, but I was thrilled with it none the less. You’ll have no problem finding your perfect dress I’m sure – there are a lot out there to choose from!! I’m sure you’ll get plenty of inspiration from bridal magazines and Pinterest and try quite a few on before you find “the one” but once you do, you’ll just know it’s right! Here’s a littleto get you going. Awww, Gorgeous eh!!
Mustn’t forget the handsome! Lots of dapper ideas for them too!
Today’s couples have become very environmentally-aware when arranging their wedding and look for creative ways to save on waste on their big day –prove that having an eco-friendly wedding doesn’t mean having to scrimp on style.
You’ll also be thinking of ordering your cake and booking a florist – and don’t forget to arrange your photographer and vidoographer in good time too!
Once you’ve sorted all the main stuff, the fun begins deciding on those all importantthat will be unique to you and make your day unforgettable! It can be tempting to go overboard as there are so many brilliant ideas around and you can end up going round in circles trying to decide which best suit your day so hopefully will help you on your way!
The best advice I can give is to try and not get too stressed out by all the planning and panic as the big day gets nearer about tings that might not go as smoothly as planned. There is naturally a lot of anxiety in the build up, but we’ve had the joy of photographing a lot of weddings over the years and all in all they go just fine despite any little mishaps that might occur last minute. Your guests will enjoy it all no matter what, as will you. At the end of the day, it’s the happiness you share as a couple, the joy of entering into wedded bliss and the looking forward to your future together that are the most important things. So relax, revel in the excitement of the planning, then enjoy and make the most of every second of your special day and cherish the lovely memories it will bring for years to come.
I wish you every happiness!